Metaphors Become Reality: Helping to Secure Relationships Under Threat cross commenting edna avraham for therapists secure-functioning Oct 14, 2020

By Edna Avraham, LMFT

PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.ednaavraham.com


“We are in the fox hole together.”

“We are rowing the same boat.”

“Don’t poke holes in the couple bubble.”

These metaphors represent some of the secure-functioning principles we use with our couples in the PACT...

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Collaboration in the Co-Parenting Partnership aurisha smolarski children co-parenting for couples parenting Sep 19, 2020

By Aurisha Smolarski, MA, LMFT 

PACT Level 2 Therapist
www.aurishasmolarski.com


 No one said parenting was easy, let alone co-parenting with an ex.

Learning how to co-parent is complicated. It’s a partnership full of emotional undertones and adjustments. Being divorced or separated and having ...

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An Exercise to Help Navigate the Effects of Sexual Trauma for therapists kate balestrieri staging trauma Sep 14, 2020

By Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D., CSAT-S, CST

PACT Level 3 Candidate, PACT Ambassador


For a sexual trauma survivor, the idea or act of being sexual with their partner can be ripe with hopes, pleasure, fears, frustrations, and shame. For the partner of a sexual trauma survivor, sex can be just as daun...

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Cultivating Your Couple Bubble couple bubble for couples margaret martin Aug 30, 2020

By Margaret Martin, LCSW

PACT Level 3 Candidate, PACT Ambassador

margaretmartinlcsw.com


In a healthy romantic relationship partners create safety and security with each other. Partners have each other’s backs and the folks around them see that they have each other’s backs. In PACT we refer to t...

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Getting to the Truth Through Cross-Tracking cross-tracking eda arduman for therapists interventions Aug 24, 2020

By Eda Arduman, MA, Clinical Psychology
PACT Certified Clinician, PACT Faculty


The PACT therapist uses cross-tracking — a technique of inquiry as well as an intervention — along with other techniques to understand couple functioning. The therapist is aiming to get information about one partner by ...

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Creating Relational Safety Under Survival Conditions, Part I co-regulation debra campbell for couples Jun 30, 2020

By Debra Campbell, MS, LMFT

PACT Level 3 Candidate, PACT Ambassador


Everything is the same, yet nothing is the same. The question of what constitutes acceptable exposure risk to COVID-19 is being debated around the globe. With new medical findings and recommendations emerging daily, how are coup...

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How Creating a Shared Purpose Unites and Renews Couples beth newton for therapists secure functioning Jun 17, 2020

By Beth Newton, LCSW, LCAS
PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
https://newtoncounseling.com/


“Winter Is Coming”

“We Do Not Sow” 

“Unbowed, Unbent, Unbroken”

“Family, Duty, Honor” 

If you are a Game of Thrones fan, you know that each ruling house has a sigil (magical symbol) and motto. The...

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Staying Connected Despite Your COVID-Cancelled Wedding co-regulation for couples secure functioning susan stork weddings May 27, 2020

by Susan Stork, LCPC, NCC

PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.spacebetweencounselingservices.com/


Many once soon-to-be-married couples have had their wedding plans altered due to the COVID-19 pandemic. You booked your venue, hotel, caterer, and entertainment – and likely spent countless...

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What Is Allostatic Load? allostatic load susan stork May 10, 2020

By Susan Stork, LCPC, NCC

PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.spacebetweencounselingservices.com/


Due to the recent pandemic, stress is at an all-time high for many couples. According to Dr. Gabor Maté, “three factors that universally lead to stress are uncertainty, lack of information,...

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Staging to Influence the Thermostat in Couple Therapy for therapists interventions melissa ferrari self-regulation staging Apr 16, 2020

By Melissa Ferrari

Dip. of C & C, Advanced Dip in Transactional Analysis (Psychotherapy)

Clinical Registrant PACFA

PACT Level 3 Candidate, PACT Ambassador

https://melissaferrari.com.au/


We all know that moment when we see a couple for the first time. Immediately, as a trained PACT therapist, ...

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Nurturing Your Relationship During “Stay at Home” Orders agreements lisa rabinowitz quarantine telehealth Apr 13, 2020

By Lisa Rabinowitz, LCPC

PACT Level 2 Therapist
https://www.baltimorecounselor.com 


During these unprecedented times, we are stuck in our homes for an undetermined amount of time with our partners, spending more hours with them than ever before. We might have always wished for extra time with a ...

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Love in the Time of the Coronavirus: PACT and Telehealth beth o'brien carolyn sharp gabrielle usatynski jason brand stan tatkin telehealth Mar 27, 2020
Gabrielle Usatynski, LPC
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
 
Carolyn Sharp, LICSW
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador  
 
Beth O’Brien, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
 
Ja...
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