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Wired for Love Couples Retreats:

Creating an Owner’s Manual for a Secure-Functioning Relationship  



Wired for Love Online Retreat

Invest in a happier, healthier relationship.

World renowned couple therapist Dr. Stan Tatkin and Dr. Tracey Tatkin are now offering their wildly popular Wired for Love couples retreat online.

This is a unique opportunity to work with Stan and Tracey in a small, exclusive group. Over the course of eight live, online sessions, you’ll learn to:

  •   Establish a nurturing two-person system called the couple bubble
  •   Understand how your brain can help you and hurt you in a relationship
  •   Practice ways to soothe yourself and each other
  •   Know your attachment style – how your brain relates to other people
  •   Fight well with your partner and repair hurt quickly
  •   Use gratitude and sex to build a stronger relationship

Don’t expect a talking head or a lecture. Each interactive session is jam-packed with demonstrations, exercises, and opportunities to practice powerful new tools to connect with your partner more deeply.

Meet with Stan and Tracey via Zoom. 

The Wired for Love Online Retreat includes:

  • 8 live online sessions totalling 20 hours of time with Stan and Tracey
  • A video library where Stan explains the concepts of Wired for Love
  • Wired for Love handbook
  • How to Fight Well ebook
  • Exercises and Brain Games for your to explore with your partner
  • Handouts, resources and more

Investment: $1,175

This retreat is expected to sell out quickly!

2021 Wired for Love Online Retreat Dates

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What couples are saying about Wired for Love online retreat:

"We learned to regulate each other and to have rituals that keep us regulated and connected. It has revolutionized our interactions."

"This retreat helped my marriage tremendously and exceeded my expectations. "

"To be better able to communicate and connect with [my partner], this retreat was a game changer for us … I can’t state enough how much this retreat has impacted us."

"Simply wonderful. Although we were in Zoom meetings, I experienced no sense of disconnection from Stan, Tracey or the other participants. The breakouts were fertile and novel learning experiences also. I was thoroughly impressed with the use of the technology, its efficiency and effectiveness.”"

"Stan is an incredible teacher. In a few hours, he was able to impart a depth of understanding that I figured would take months. He doesn’t teach knowledge, he teaches understanding. Very helpful workshop on becoming a better couple."

2022 Wired for Love Retreat in Spain

Join Us on this fascinating adventure as you experience the possibilities of a truly loving relationship while enjoying an ambiance of luxury and comfort.

Envision yourself at an enchanting abbey/hotel surrounded by vineyards and ancient lands in a sacred cultural heritage site and spending time with Stan and Tracey as you enhance your relationship.

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We believe in secure-functioning relationships. Sensitivity, fairness, trust, mutual respect. These are the relationship principles we hold dear.

In our Wired for Love couples retreats, you’ll learn how to incorporate these values every day in your relationship.

Work directly with Drs. Stan Tatkin and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin and transform your relationship over the course of a weekend.

The workshops, based on neuroscience research and attachment theory models, will help you strengthen your relationship, build intimacy, and manage conflict.

Who is the workshop for?

Wired for Love retreats are designed for all couples in a committed relationship. You do not need to be married or planning to get married. Truly, all couples could benefit, whether you’re needing help to repair a broken relationship or wanting to make a good relationship even stronger and more fulfilling.

What will you do?

Stan and Tracey lead couples through fun exercises and experiments designed to help you identify your partner’s attachment style, read each other’s body language and arousal states, and manage conflicts. Hands-on activities help coupes create secure-functioning relationships and stronger, more fulfilling connections. No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple. Stan and Tracey are available to offer support during exercises.

What will you learn? 

  • Understand the basic biology of relationship connection and the psychobiological particulars of your partner.

  • Recognize your own and your partner’s relationship styles.

  • Read your partner’s nonverbal behavior.

  • Play well and fight well together. 

  • Form mutually satisfying and lasting agreements based on fairness, justice, and sensitivity.

  • Build greater intimacy.

  • Move toward secure functioning with your partner.

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"Stan is an incredible teacher. In a few hours, he was able to impart a depth of understanding that I figured would take months. He doesn’t teach knowledge, he teaches understanding. Very helpful workshop on becoming a better couple."

"We loved it. Learned a lot and enjoyed the great energy and love from the group. Would highly recommend to other couples or clinicians!"

"This was the best workshop ever. Stan and Tracey are phenomenal teachers. The material was amazing, as was my experience here. Also, it was so helpful to have their assistance to help me and my partner."

"Excellent workshop with skilled and caring leaders. Stan is so skilled, and Tracey warm and a great partner. Learned so much."

"Amazing! I came with an intention to be open, [to] truly understand and learn about myself and my partner and interplay, and absolutely came away with that. Stan and Tracey created a safe environment that allowed us to be vulnerable, which truly enhanced our learning. Thank you!"

Previous retreat hosts:

Marriage and Family Therapists, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors, Licensed Educational Psychologists, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, and Certified Counselors: The PACT Institute has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 6641. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. The PACT Institute is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

New York Social Workers: PACT Institute SW CPE is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed social workers #0104. 

New York Social Workers & Mental Health Practitioners: PACT Institute, LLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Mental Health Practitioners as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed mental health counselors. #MHC-0114.

Psychologists: The PACT Institute is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists.The PACT Institute maintains responsibility for this program and its content. 


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