"Where was Stan Tatkin when I was dating? I highly recommend Wired for Dating to anyone who is ready for a secure-functioning relationship. Tatkin addresses the scientific, psychobiological, neurobiological, and intricate ways of the nervous system within the realm of dating, and does so in an utterly readable, practically applicable, wise, and entertaining way."
Alanis Morissette
artist and activist
"Reading Stan Tatkin’s book makes you want to be in therapy with him. With intense and fearless clarity, he takes you into the trenches of the combative human brain and shows you how to make love, not war."
Esther Perel
LMFT, author of The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
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Wired for Love Couples Workshops
Work directly with Dr. Stan Tatkin and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin and strengthen your relationship over the course of a weekend.
Stan's latest book: We Do
We Do is a groundbreaking guide for couples. Figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and give your relationship a strong foundation for secure and lasting love.
PACT Training for Therapists
After PACT training, therapists report feeling more capable, confident, and effective in treating even their most challenging couples. Learn more about PACT training.