Improving Couples Communication Through Neuroscience Ā  communication debra campell for couples neuroscience Jan 12, 2021

 

Debra Campbell, MS, LMFT, PACT 3 Candidate

www.gocuris.com/debracampbell


“Learning how to communicate better with my partner” is a commonly stated goal of couples in therapy. While not inaccurate, learning how to communicate better is often oversimplified to mean using the...

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When Partners Write Internal "Movie Scriptsā€¯ that Hurt the Relationship attachment for therapists hans stahlschmidt neuroscience projection Dec 16, 2019

Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt, PhD

Certified PACT Therapist, PACT Core Faculty

stahlschmidt-therapy.com 


A central function of the brain is to detect patterns. It must make sense of the data that bombards us from our ongoing internal and external experience.  An aspect of this function is to...

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Secure-Functioning Essentials: Taking Care of Yourself and Your Partner at the Same Time for couples neuroscience secure functioning stan tatkin Jun 17, 2018

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT

Many partners ask me how to take care simultaneously of themselves and of their partner. In practical terms, this can be difficult to carry off. Similarly, some couple therapists find it difficult to convey the principle of simultaneous care to couples they treat. This...

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Applying the Three PACT Domains arousal attachment for therapists mary ackerman neuroscience May 15, 2015

by Mary Ackerman, MIC, BASS (Cllg); CARE Counselling Hong Kong, PACT Level II practitioner
Website: carecounsellinghk.com

Philippe and Grace, who have been married for twelve years, are clients in my clinical practice in Hong Kong. He is French Swiss and works in finance, and she is Korean...

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Our Automatic Brain: Everything New Will Soon Be Old brain for couples neuroscience stan tatkin Apr 01, 2015

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT,
stantatkin.com

Our brains are remarkable organs. They take in and use massive amounts of information from inside and outside our bodies and allow us to go through about 90% of our day automatically. We can get from point A to point B while checking our emails, talking to...

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Working Bottom Up in PACT arousal bottom-up interventions neuroscience secure functioning Sep 18, 2014

 

by Karen Berry, PhD, PACT faculty, New York, NY
Email:  [email protected]

Bottom-up interventions are the bread and butter of PACT. These interventions can be simple to execute, yet powerful in their effect. For example, the therapist can ask partners to face one another, with...

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