Our Automatic Brain: Everything New Will Soon Be Old brain for couples neuroscience stan tatkin Apr 01, 2015

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT,
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Our brains are remarkable organs. They take in and use massive amounts of information from inside and outside our bodies and allow us to go through about 90% of our day automatically. We can get from point A to point B while checking our emails, talking to...

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The Secure Family Asana arousal attachment brain ideas lon rankin secure functioning Nov 04, 2014

by Lon Rankin, LPCC, PACT faculty, Santa Fe, NM
Website: LonRankin.com
Email: [email protected]

Every species of mammal uses the limbic system—the social, emotional, relational part of the brain—to create strong bonds that provide safety and a felt sense of security....

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Secure Enough to Be Spontaneous arousal attachment brain for therapists ideas pact community prevention Apr 13, 2014

by Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt, Ph.D., PACT faculty, Berkeley CA,
Website: www.stahlschmidt-therapy.com
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Burnout is common among psychotherapists. Countless articles and books deal with reasons for and prevention of burnout. However, some instances of burnout are nearly...

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Betrayal Causes Trauma arousal attachment brain for therapists ideas pair bonding stan tatkin Mar 16, 2014

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT

In matters of betrayal—lying, cheating, stealing—the breach of the attachment system is acute and often long lasting and can be understood neurologically as a trauma-related problem.

Franklin and Zeynep, a couple in their early 40s with two young children,...

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No Pain No Gain brain for therapist ideas maxims pact pair bonding secure functioning stan tatkin stance therapy Dec 11, 2013

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT,
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Therapy is only useful for changing people who are experiencing sufficient distress. This is not to say that education, consultation, or brief counseling will have no effect. People often benefit from couple counseling for premarital or other short-term...

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