Staying Connected Despite Your COVID-Cancelled Wedding co-regulation for couples secure functioning susan stork weddings May 27, 2020

by Susan Stork, LCPC, NCC

PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.spacebetweencounselingservices.com/


Many once soon-to-be-married couples have had their wedding plans altered due to the COVID-19 pandemic. You booked your venue, hotel, caterer, and entertainment – and likely spent countless...

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What Is Allostatic Load? allostatic load susan stork May 10, 2020

By Susan Stork, LCPC, NCC

PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.spacebetweencounselingservices.com/


Due to the recent pandemic, stress is at an all-time high for many couples. According to Dr. Gabor Maté, “three factors that universally lead to stress are uncertainty, lack of information,...

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Staging to Influence the Thermostat in Couple Therapy for therapists interventions melissa ferrari self-regulation staging Apr 16, 2020

By Melissa Ferrari

Dip. of C & C, Advanced Dip in Transactional Analysis (Psychotherapy)

Clinical Registrant PACFA

PACT Level 3 Candidate, PACT Ambassador

https://melissaferrari.com.au/


We all know that moment when we see a couple for the first time. Immediately, as a trained PACT therapist, ...

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Nurturing Your Relationship During “Stay at Home” Orders agreements lisa rabinowitz quarantine telehealth Apr 13, 2020

By Lisa Rabinowitz, LCPC

PACT Level 2 Therapist
https://www.baltimorecounselor.com 


During these unprecedented times, we are stuck in our homes for an undetermined amount of time with our partners, spending more hours with them than ever before. We might have always wished for extra time with a ...

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Love in the Time of the Coronavirus: PACT and Telehealth beth o'brien carolyn sharp gabrielle usatynski jason brand stan tatkin telehealth Mar 27, 2020
Gabrielle Usatynski, LPC
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
 
Carolyn Sharp, LICSW
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador  
 
Beth O’Brien, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
 
Ja...
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Be Ready to Drop Your Darlings and Other Lessons from PACT beth o'brien for therapists interventions Feb 20, 2020

By Beth O’Brien, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist

PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador

www.bethobriencounseling.com


In PACT training, Dr. Stan Tatkin shared this gem: “Be prepared to drop your darlings.” Darlings are those valuable insights a counselor acquires as s/he sees the concerns of the c...

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Beyond the Valentine Chocolates and Roses: Creating a Long-Lasting Relationship clinton power for couples repair secure functioning Feb 13, 2020

Clinton Power

PACT Level 2 Therapist, PACT Ambassador
clintonpower.com.au


Some people want chocolates and roses for Valentine's Day, but it's not the small (or big) romantic gestures on special occasions that lead to relationship success. To go from an initial date to a long-term relationship yo...

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Relationship Resolutions: A New Spark for the New Year for couples lisa rabinowitz Jan 28, 2020

By Lisa Rabinowitz, LCPC

PACT Level 2 Therapist
https://www.baltimorecounselor.com


Every new year brings new and renewed resolutions and commitments to our work, school, family, and self. We are excited by the thought of what this year can bring. Frequently, we wonder about what new possibilitie...

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The PACT Institute: Growing with You in 2020 and Beyond beverly baker for couples for therapists pact team Jan 17, 2020

Dear PACT Community,

Happy 2020! Here at the PACT Institute we wanted to take this opportunity – as we enter a new decade – to share with you the vision we hold for the Institute in 2020 and beyond.

Our goal is to create a global and sustainable organization. In the last year, Stan, Tracey, the fa...

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Communication 101: Listen and Understand, Part 2 communication for couples kara hoppe listening Dec 18, 2019

By Kara Hoppe, MA, LMFT

PACT Level 2 Therapist

karahoppe.com


Couples have a seemingly universal ask when they first reach out for therapy: each couple, no matter their specific struggle, is on the hunt for solid communication tools. This makes sense. Communication is a crucial part of how we co...

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When Partners Write Internal "Movie Scripts” that Hurt the Relationship attachment for therapists hans stahlschmidt neuroscience projection Dec 16, 2019

Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt, PhD

Certified PACT Therapist, PACT Core Faculty

stahlschmidt-therapy.com 


A central function of the brain is to detect patterns. It must make sense of the data that bombards us from our ongoing internal and external experience.  An aspect of this function is to support t...

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Thinking About Polyamory? Is Consensual Nonmonogamy Healthy for Your Relationship? carolyn sharp for couples nonmonogamy polyamory Nov 21, 2019

By Carolyn Sharp, LICSW

PACT Level 3 Therapist, PACT Ambassador  

carolynsharp.com


 More and more couples who come into my office for therapy are interested in polyamory or consensual nonmonogamy. Some have been practicing it for years and believe it to be part of their values and their self-ex...

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