Using PACT in Individual Therapy: A Pro-Relationship Stance  for therapists individual therapy margaret martin Jul 17, 2017

Margaret Martin, LCSW, SEP
PACT Level III candidate
Austin, TX
margaretmartinlcsw.com

When I started my career, I was a dyed-in-the-wool individual therapist, with little or no interest in couple therapy. My master’s program offered minimal education in couple therapy, and because I had no plans to pu...

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Joysticks and Controllers: Using PACT With Kids Who Use Video Games Obsessively children jason brand parenting Jun 18, 2017

Jason Brand, LCSW
PACT Level II
Berkeley, CA
www.jasonbrand.com

Video games used to have joysticks—simple black boxes with a red trigger button and a stick for movement. Today they have controllers that are multi-buttoned, provide sensory feedback, and obey spoken commands. In many families, I see a l...

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The Making of a Third for couples for therapists parenting sara slater thirds May 15, 2017

Sara Slater, MSW, LICSW

Seattle, WA

PACT Level III candidate

[email protected]

 

Apparently the pregnant couple in my office didn’t want to talk about preparing for baby at all. Instead, in the first minutes of their first session, Meg launched into her frustrations about their house an...

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The Body Knows How to Love arousal regulation for therapists interventions michele mccormick Apr 17, 2017

 Michele McCormick, Ph.D.
PACT Level III candidate
Newport Beach, CA
www.drmmc.com

The body tells the story. In contrast with traditional psychoanalysts, PACT-trained therapists need not take an extensive life history in the first session to discern how a client’s past affects how he or she relates to...

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Renewing Love at a Wired for Love Retreat beth o'brien for therapists wired for love Feb 13, 2017

by Beth O’Brien, PhD, licensed psychologist
PACT Level III candidate
http://bethobriencounseling.com/


“Fast acting, long lasting.” Those are the words one couple used to describe their experience of PACT in session with me. As a PACT Level III candidate, I find that once each partner learns to real...

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What Dating Apps Can Steal From You Jan 17, 2017

by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT


Las Vegas used to have slot machines known as one-armed bandits. You only needed to move one arm to let them take all your money. Most slot machines now have buttons or a digital interface, but I remember seeing people in casinos hypnotically putting money in the slot, p...

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Seeing and Understanding Each Other john grey Jan 15, 2017

by John Grey, PhD
PACT core faculty
healingcouplesretreats.com


Like many couples who arrive for their first session, Robert and Susan initially sat down facing me rather than each other. Both in their mid fifties, they had been married for seventeen years and had two children they loved very much. ...

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Choose a Win-Win Resolution with Your Partner lindsey walker Nov 13, 2016

By Lindsey Walker, LMFT
PACT Level II practitioner
Seattle, WA
http://www.lindseywalker.com


You’re lying in bed, curled to one side, your blankets pulled up tight and cozy. It’s cool and quiet, and the night has long fallen around you. “Ah, sweet slumber,” you think, “just moments away.” But wait, w...

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Security at Home and in the World ellen boeder Nov 13, 2016

By Ellen Boeder, MA, LPC
PACT Level II practitioner
Boulder, CO
http://www.ellenboeder.com


When I witness a couple move from fear and blame into trust and genuine care, I am inspired to feel hope for humanity. Protecting our loved ones and providing real relief to each other are qualities our entire...

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The Beauty of Secure Functioning michelle rae Oct 16, 2016

By Michelle Rae, M.S.W., RSW
PACT Level II practitioner
Oakville, Ontario
http://www.raecounselling.com


Can you imagine living in a world where every person—adult and child alike—started and ended his or her day feeling loved and connected to another? In a culture that values independence, autonomy,...

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Does the Bite Fit the Wound?: Exploring Some PACT Maxims for therapists rick hupp Sep 12, 2016

By Rick Hupp, LMFT
PACT Level II practitioner
West Hills, CA
www.responsiverelating.com


When I was a boy, I had a loyal and loving friendship with our family dog, a Labrador retriever mix named Domingo. He was our docile family mascot, and he had a wonderful ability to influence us in a playful mann...

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Working with Traumatized Couples Using PACT for therapists rachel holland trauma Aug 14, 2016

By Rachel Holland, DClinPsych,
PACT core faculty
Buckinghamshire, UK
[email protected]


Dan and Jane have been married for thirty years and have three sons. They came into therapy following a challenging time in their lives after they faced a number of health, family, and work proble...

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